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Having A Baby Will Not Make Him Stay
Loving on you will save you every time.
When loving him is no longer enough, sis walk away and love on you! I’ve been there before. I felt hopeless in a marriage fighting to save the look of having a two-parent home for our children. I have been blindsided by deceit and been the deceitful one.
If loving him is draining you in any way find the strength to choose yourself! You will continue to fight a silent war with a man who ignores your efforts. You both must want the same vision.
He must also desire better for the relationship or marriage you both share. Your tears won’t stop, sis. Don’t allow that man to make you lose sight of your worth and happiness. A baby. An expensive vacation. A new car. A night of passionate lovemaking won’t change a man who has already mentally and emotionally checked out.
Baby, I exhausted myself mentally and emotionally with a newborn baby in a marriage that had fizzled out long before I was pregnant. In 2020, I tried playing with my looks and cutting my hair shorter, cooking different meals to please him, and trying to strengthen lines of communication. I even went my overly concerned self to therapy. It all was not enough to spice the way he viewed me up. Everyone talks now about the red flags, but what about your intuition?
