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5 Surprising Truths I Discovered Living Independently with My Kids Post-Divorce in a New City
What would it be if you had to leap of faith this year? How would you execute your plan of action? Do you believe it is attainable? These are questions that I asked myself when I was starting to script my journey to independence as a divorced single parent.
It has been quite the journey to sustain the vision and lifestyle. I have fought hard to make my road to independence an abundant one. Here are five things that I realized starting this journey in 2023.
1. You Are Stronger Than You Ever Imagined
Moving to a new city alone feels like stepping into the great unknown. Imagine moving to a new town with no car, no family, and mustard seed faith. I realized that strength isn’t just about muscle. Strength is about resilience, adaptability, and grit.
Each day came with a new challenge, from navigating unfamiliar streets, tackling unexpected school runs, and picking up my son while still working. Every small victory, like assembling a piece of step-by-step furniture alone or finding the nearest grocery store, became a testament to my newfound independence. I learned that my strength lies not in my ability to endure but in my willingness to embrace the uncertainty of my new life and thrive.
